I had an exchange of notes the other day with one of my sons, thinking of the many homes he and I shared over the years of living together and then the visits with each other as he grew into adulthood and began to find and live in his own homes. My mind lingered, as it will, on the sheer number of comings and goings and the frequency of moving, the complex tangle of feelings and forces at work in leaving a home and breaking new ground. I was astonished, dumb wondering as I counted from memory 43 homes in 70 years. I can still walk through all but the very earliest, the first two. Too many comings and goings, I wrote. And he replied, from his own memory drawn from the well of experience we share,
"I
remember you saying once when we were hiking in Wonalancet – that day
we got lost, remember? - and looking over the mountains and you saying,
‘another place in that interminable succession of places’ - and the best
we can do is to be present for them – their grief, their promise, their
tears of joy, forgiveness, loss, return. And when we cannot be present,
to try to greet that, too, with compassion. So maybe life is
this interminable succession of places, that is, of comings and goings.
Thank God we can witness each other through this, and share many of
those places."
As I was ruminating on his words I thought of a poem of Richard Wilbur that had not come to mind for many years, the powerful and so deeply evocative image of a carpenter's hole in the parlor floor, gazing down and down, an archeological find, kneeling, looking "where the joists go into hiding,"
A pure street, faintly littered
With bits and strokes of light,
Enters the long darkness
Where its parallels will meet.
and in the end, "the buried strangeness," the spring "which nourishes the known," source of danger, host of life.
A Hole In The Floor
for Rene Magritte
The carpenter's made a hole
In the parlor floor, and I'm standing
Staring down into it now
At four o'clock in the evening,
As Schliemann stood when his shovel
Knocked on the crowns of Troy.
A clean-cut sawdust sparkles
On the grey, shaggy laths,
And here is a cluster of shavings
From the time when the floor was laid.
They are silvery-gold, the color
Of Hesperian apple-parings.
Kneeling, I look in under
Where the joists go into hiding.
A pure street, faintly littered
With bits and strokes of light,
Enters the long darkness
Where its parallels will meet.
The radiator-pipe
Rises in middle distance
Like a shuttered kiosk, standing
Where the only news is night.
Here's it's not painted green,
As it is in the visible world.
For God's sake, what am I after?
Some treasure, or tiny garden?
Or that untrodden place,
The house's very soul,
Where time has stored our footbeats
And the long skein of our voices?
Not these, but the buried strangeness
Which nourishes the known:
That spring from which the floor-lamp
Drinks now a wilder bloom,
Inflaming the damask love-seat
And the whole dangerous room.
- Richard Wilbur
It is not only billions of dollars that are at stake. It is the US's and the world's recovery from a terrible economic crisis. It is the fate of Barack Obama's program for restoration of an American democracy committed to the well-being and equal opportunity for all of its citizens. It is the awful daily accumulating costs of an insane war. (Item: "some 300,000 [American service members] are currently suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder or depression, and 320,000 have most likely experienced a traumatic brain injury.")
As a companion to Bob Herbert's piece below, here is a striking assessment of the prospects for the realization of President Obama's plans by Andrew Bacevich, who teaches international relations at Boston University and is author of The Limits of Power: The End of American Exceptionalism:
He wrote: